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2bits  “The unraveling of one’s life is often a gradual process, influenced by a series of choices and decisions that chip away at the foundation of one’s integrity. It is not always the major events that shape our destinies, but the small, seemingly insignificant choices made in a split second that silently lead us astray from our moral core. These subtle betrayals of character, when left unchecked, accumulate over time and transform us into strangers to ourselves. The path to self-destruction is not paved with one big mistake, but rather with the countless compromises we make in our daily lives. For me, the turning point did not come with the introduction of alcohol into my life, but with the moment I chose to avoid discomfort. It was this split-second decision, driven by the desire to escape difficult truths and obstacles, that set me on a profound and destructive path. Looking back, I realize that it was the subtle evils within each minute choice that eroded the innocence and g...

In a society that often stigmatizes and condemns individuals struggling with alcohol or drug use, it’s crucial to delve beyond the surface and recognize that these substances might be more than mere vices. The notion that “I’d rather have you drunk than dead” highlights a perspective that urges us to consider the deeper reasons behind substance use rather than solely focusing on the act itself. Substance use can often be a symptom rather than the root cause of the issue. It serves as a coping mechanism for individuals grappling with overwhelming emotions, trauma, or unresolved psychological struggles. Simply taking away the substance without addressing these underlying concerns could be akin to treating a symptom while neglecting the disease. In a poignant example, a client who successfully quit alcohol and drugs found themselves in a perilous emotional state. This case sheds light on the fact that removing the substances doesn’t automatically alleviate the pain or resolve the issues t...