I’d rather have you drunk than dead


In a society that often stigmatizes and condemns individuals struggling with alcohol or drug use, it’s crucial to delve beyond the surface and recognize that these substances might be more than mere vices. The notion that “I’d rather have you drunk than dead” highlights a perspective that urges us to consider the deeper reasons behind substance use rather than solely focusing on the act itself.

Substance use can often be a symptom rather than the root cause of the issue. It serves as a coping mechanism for individuals grappling with overwhelming emotions, trauma, or unresolved psychological struggles. Simply taking away the substance without addressing these underlying concerns could be akin to treating a symptom while neglecting the disease.

In a poignant example, a client who successfully quit alcohol and drugs found themselves in a perilous emotional state. This case sheds light on the fact that removing the substances doesn’t automatically alleviate the pain or resolve the issues that led to their use in the first place. It’s a stark reminder that substance abuse often masks deeper problems that demand attention and understanding.

To truly help individuals struggling with addiction, a holistic approach is necessary. Professional counseling, therapy, and support systems can provide a safe space for individuals to explore the root causes of their substance use. By addressing the underlying issues, one can not only help individuals break free from the shackles of addiction but also equip them with healthier coping mechanisms to navigate life’s challenges.

The “I’d rather have you drunk than dead” perspective advocates for a compassionate and empathetic approach to those battling addiction. It emphasizes the importance of viewing substance use through a lens of understanding and recognizing that, for many, these substances serve as a temporary escape from deeper emotional turmoil.

In conclusion, the battle against addiction should extend beyond just tackling the surface behavior. By acknowledging the underlying reasons for substance use and providing the necessary support and resources, we can help individuals on their journey towards recovery. It’s a call to action for a more compassionate society that seeks to understand rather than stigmatize, recognizing that addressing the root causes is paramount for a lasting and meaningful change.


Mental health and alcohol drug counseling


Tim Welch, LPCC Mental Health Counseling, 
Newark, Ohio Licking County Online Therapy.  Virtual Counseling for Alcohol Addiction, Drug Addiction, Anxiety, Depression & Mental Health Issues.

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